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The Way of the Weight-Loss Warrior

Do the Work. Lose the Weight. Transform Your Life.

By Stanley F. Bronstein – MPWLC Founder

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Foreword

The Way of the Weight Loss Warrior

Do the Work. Lose the Weight. Transform Your Life.

I didn’t set out to become a weight loss warrior. In fact, for much of my life, I didn’t believe someone like me could ever wear that title.

At my heaviest, I weighed 367 pounds. I was uncomfortable, unhealthy, and deeply disconnected—not just from my body, but from my sense of self. I knew I needed to change, but like so many others, I had tried everything the world told me would work—only to find myself stuck in the same patterns.

What finally changed?

I stopped looking for shortcuts.

No pills.

No surgeries.

No overnight fixes.

Just one small commitment at a time.

I changed my diet—gradually—toward whole, plant-based foods. I got moving—first with short walks, then longer ones. Over time, those changes stacked up. And eventually, I lost 224 pounds—and kept it off.

More importantly, I became someone new.

I didn’t just lose weight—I gained clarity, confidence, and a cause.

That cause became the Million Pound Weight Loss Challenge (MPWLC), a global movement to help at least 50,000 people each lose 20+ pounds—permanently.

The foundation of MPWLC isn’t some gimmick. It’s not a program that “you do” until you reach your goal weight.

It’s a way of living.

It’s about showing up every single day to do the work—especially when no one’s watching. It’s about falling in love with the process, not the outcome. It’s about turning daily actions into acts of self-respect.

That’s why this book isn’t called How to Lose Weight.

It’s called The Way of the Weight Loss Warrior.

Because this journey—like all great transformations—isn’t about what you achieve. It’s about who you become in the process.

The word warrior may sound intimidating. But in this book, it doesn’t mean perfection, aggression, or competition. A Weight Loss Warrior is someone who’s willing to face their truth, take radical responsibility, and transform through consistent, purposeful action.

You’ll see the influence of many powerful philosophies here—especially the teachings from Joshua Medcalf’s Chop Wood Carry Water, which beautifully illustrates the path of quiet mastery. You’ll also find ideas from my personal system, The Way of Excellence, and the broader MPWLC philosophy, which weaves together lessons from emotional resilience, habit formation, somatic healing, mindfulness, and more.

Most importantly, you’ll see yourself—not the version of you that struggles, but the one that rises.

This is a book about becoming.

About reclaiming your strength.

About doing the work.

And about never needing to start over again—because this time, it becomes who you are.

You are not broken. You are not too far gone.

You don’t need to be saved.

You just need to remember how powerful you already are.

Welcome to the way.

Let’s begin.

— Stanley Bronstein

Founder of the Million Pound Weight Loss Challenge

Author of The Way of Excellence

Weight Loss Warrior

Introduction

The Warrior’s Way to Weight Loss

You’ve tried everything.

Keto. Paleo. Intermittent fasting.

Shakes, powders, pills, apps, coaches, clinics, points, and programs.

You’ve probably lost the same 20, 30, even 50 pounds over and over again—

Only to gain it back, again and again.

You’re not alone.

You’re also not broken.

You’ve been lied to.

We live in a world that thrives on fast results and empty promises.

It convinces you that weight loss should be easy.

It markets shortcuts instead of solutions.

It sells you transformation—but never teaches you how to be transformed.

And maybe most damaging of all?

It tells you that if you fail, it’s your fault.

But the truth is this:

You don’t need another diet.

You need a way.

A Way that puts consistency over quick fixes.

A Way that values identity over numbers.

A Way that focuses on showing up, not giving up.

That’s what this book is about.

Who Is a Weight Loss Warrior?

A Weight Loss Warrior isn’t someone who has six-pack abs, runs ultramarathons, or posts transformation photos every Tuesday.

A Weight Loss Warrior is someone who:

Wakes up and makes one healthy choice—when no one is watching
Walks instead of gives up
Preps a simple meal instead of ordering out
Tracks non-scale victories: better sleep, sharper focus, more confidence
Prioritizes the work over the result
Refuses to quit on themselves, no matter how long it takes

A Warrior doesn’t need motivation.

A Warrior builds momentum.

A Warrior doesn’t hope for change.

A Warrior creates it—through repeated, disciplined action.

Why I Wrote This Book

I wrote this book because I’ve lived the struggle.

I used to weigh 367 pounds.

I was successful professionally—a lawyer, CPA, and real estate broker. But privately, I was imprisoned by my weight. I knew I needed to change, and I tried nearly everything the system told me would work.

Eventually, I realized something powerful:

The problem wasn’t my willpower. It was the system itself.

I stopped chasing gimmicks and started doing the work—one walk, one home-cooked meal, one day at a time. And over time, I lost 224 pounds—naturally.

No drugs. No surgeries. Just steady effort, daily discipline, and lifestyle transformation.

That’s how The Million Pound Weight Loss Challenge (MPWLC) was born: a global movement to help 50,000+ people each lose at least 20 pounds and collectively release over 1 million pounds of unhealthy weight—permanently.

Not through dieting.

Not through hype.

But through permanent lifestyle change.

Through the work.

This book is an extension of that mission.

Inspired by Ancient Wisdom + Modern Mastery

Throughout this book, you’ll notice an integration of philosophies that go far deeper than food and fitness. These include:

Chop Wood Carry Water by Joshua Medcalf — a parable about falling in love with the process and trusting the journey
Atomic Habits by James Clear — the power of tiny changes and identity-based habits
The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson — how small, consistent actions compound over time
Radical Acceptance by Dr. Tara Brach — healing through self-compassion and presence
Essentialism by Greg McKeown — focusing on what truly matters and eliminating distraction
The Atlas of Emotions by Dr. Paul Ekman and the Dalai Lama — understanding emotional triggers and transformation
Deep Work and Slow Productivity by Cal Newport — building focus and doing meaningful work
The Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu — the art of surrender, stillness, and inner wisdom
The Way of Excellence — my personal development system, which forms the backbone of this book

These philosophies aren’t just weight loss advice.

They are life philosophies—and when applied correctly, weight loss becomes a natural outcome of who you are becoming.

What to Expect From This Book

This isn’t a manual. It’s a path.

Part I will introduce you to The Call to Battle—why most people fail at weight loss, what makes the MPWLC approach different, and how to embody the mindset of a Warrior.

Part II will walk you through Chopping the Wood—the daily habits and rituals that create long-term success.

Part III will guide you through Carrying the Water—the inner work that heals the root causes of weight gain and transforms your identity.

Part IV will show you how to Lead the Legion—because once you’ve walked the path, your greatest purpose may be helping others walk it too.

Each chapter blends parable-style stories with practical insights, powerful affirmations, simple action steps, and guiding questions.

There’s no fluff here—only what works.

One Step at a Time. One Choice at a Time. One Victory at a Time.

You don’t need to be perfect.

You don’t need to know how it all ends.

You only need to take the next step.

Pick up the axe. Chop the wood.

Lift the bucket. Carry the water.

Do the work.

Because the path of the Warrior begins exactly where you are right now.

Let’s begin.

— Stanley Bronstein

PART I – THE CALL TO BATTLE

This is where the warrior awakens.

You didn’t come here for another pep talk.

You came because something inside you is ready to change.

Part I is about answering that call—the voice inside that says,

“I can’t keep living like this.”

Before we get to meal plans, walking routines, or weight loss tips, we must confront the deeper truth:

This journey begins with your mindset, not your menu.

This part of the book will show you:

Why so many people are stuck in the cycle of weight loss and regain
What makes the MPWLC movement different—and more effective
How to stop waiting and start acting
What it means to think, live, and rise like a Weight Loss Warrior

This isn’t about hype.

This is about honor—the honor of reclaiming your body, your choices, and your life.

This is the call to battle.

And your time is now.

Chapter 1: The Obesity Crisis and the Way Forward

The enemy is real. But so is your power.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.”

— Sun Tzu, The Art of War

Let’s begin with the truth.

We are in the middle of a full-blown health crisis—one of the most urgent and costly in human history. It isn’t a secret. It isn’t hidden. And it isn’t going away on its own.

According to the CDC, over 190 million adults in the United States are either overweight or obese. That’s nearly three out of every four adults. Of those, more than 42% are obese, and another 31% are overweight. The numbers are staggering.

Globally, it’s even worse:

Over 1.9 billion adults are overweight, and more than 650 million are classified as obese. Among children and adolescents, over 340 million are overweight or obese. These numbers aren’t statistics anymore—they’re a reality for far too many people in every country, every city, every household.

But this book isn’t about numbers.

It’s about people—real people who are suffering silently under the weight of shame, chronic illness, pain, and hopelessness.

It’s about you, if you’ve ever struggled to zip up a pair of jeans or look at yourself in the mirror without flinching.

This is the enemy we’re fighting.

Not just excess fat.

Not just bad food or poor habits.

But a culture that profits from your disempowerment.

The Real War We’re Fighting

Here’s the uncomfortable truth:

We live in a society that is designed to keep you overweight and unwell.
Processed foods are everywhere—cheap, addictive, and nutritionally empty.
Fast food is marketed as convenience, while real nourishment takes time and effort.
The weight loss industry profits from your repeated failure, not your success.

We are bombarded daily by false promises:

“Lose 30 pounds in 30 days!”

“Try this fat-burning pill!”

“Eat whatever you want and still lose weight!”

And what happens when you try one of these gimmicks, and it doesn’t work?

You blame yourself.

You feel like a failure.

You quit.

But the truth is, you’ve been set up to fail.

And now you’re here, not because you’re weak—

but because you’re still searching for something that works.

Something real.

Something honest.

Enter: The Way of the Weight Loss Warrior

This book isn’t about losing weight fast.

It’s about losing weight forever—by becoming someone who no longer carries it.

That starts with a mindset shift.

A new identity.

A new way of living, thinking, eating, walking, and being.

This book—and the Million Pound Weight Loss Challenge (MPWLC)—aren’t just about calories or exercise plans. Those matter, yes, but they come later.

First, we work on the foundation:

How you think
How you show up
What you believe about yourself
What you’re willing to do every day without applause or immediate reward

That’s the Warrior’s Way.

Because permanent weight loss doesn’t happen when you follow a diet.

It happens when you start living a life that naturally produces a lighter, stronger, freer version of you.

My Journey Into Battle

I’ve lived it.

At one point, I weighed 367 pounds.

I was successful in my career, but I was in pain every single day.

Physically, emotionally, spiritually—I was heavy in every possible sense of the word.

I tried all the traditional methods.

I saw doctors. I joined programs. I read books. I bought supplements.

But nothing stuck. Not long-term. Not permanently.

What finally worked wasn’t some new discovery.

It was something ancient, something deeply human:

Doing the work.

One meal at a time.

One step at a time.

One moment of truth at a time.

Eventually, I lost 224 pounds—

Without drugs. Without surgeries. Without gimmicks.

But the real victory wasn’t the weight I lost.

It was the person I became along the way.

And now I’m inviting you to join me.

Why MPWLC Exists

The Million Pound Weight Loss Challenge was born from a simple but powerful idea:

If I could do this—so could thousands of others.

But most people don’t have a plan that actually works.

They don’t have a system. They don’t have support.

And they don’t know how to stop restarting their journey every few months.

So I created MPWLC with one mission:

Help 50,000+ people each lose at least 20 pounds naturally and permanently—adding up to over 1 million pounds lost, one warrior at a time.

Not with diets.

Not with shame.

Not with willpower.

But through identity transformation, habit change, emotional healing, and daily discipline.

That’s the difference between a weight loss participant and a Weight Loss Warrior.

The participant tries.

The Warrior becomes.

Why This Book Matters Now

If you’re reading this, the odds are high that:

You’ve struggled to lose weight for years
You’ve been misled by diet culture
You’re tired of starting over
You’ve lost faith in yourself—or in the possibility of change

This book is your way back to that possibility.

Because it’s not too late.

You’re not too old.

You’re not too far gone.

You just need a different path.

A better path.

A warrior’s path.

In the pages that follow, I’ll teach you how to think, act, and live like a Weight Loss Warrior.

But first, you must understand one thing clearly:

You are not the problem. Your approach has been the problem. And today, that changes.

Welcome to the battle.

Now let’s begin training.

Chapter 2 - The Warrior Doesn’t Wait

Chapter 2: The Warrior Doesn’t Wait

Start where you are. Begin with what you have. Move anyway.

“A warrior never waits for perfect conditions. He sharpens his sword daily—even when there’s no battle on the horizon.”

There’s a moment in every transformation when a decision must be made.

Not a big decision. Not a dramatic one.

Not some public vow or grand declaration.

It’s a quiet moment.

A private moment.

One that often comes in the middle of an ordinary day.

It’s the moment when you stop waiting.

And you start becoming.

The Waiting Trap

Most people don’t fail because they’re incapable.

They fail because they wait too long to begin.

“I’ll start on Monday.”
“I’ll begin after the holidays.”
“I need to get my life together first.”
“Once things calm down, I’ll commit.”
“I just need to lose 10 pounds first before I can… start losing weight.”

Sound familiar?

This is the waiting trap.

A cycle of postponement that robs people of the only thing that truly creates change: action.

Waiting gives the illusion of control.

But all it really does is keep you stuck in a loop of wishing, planning, and excusing.

The Warrior knows better.

The Warrior Begins Now

The Warrior doesn’t wait for the stars to align.

He doesn’t wait for the weather to be perfect.

She doesn’t wait until she feels motivated.

The Warrior simply begins.

Begins before they feel ready.

Begins before they believe they can do it.

Begins before the fear has fully left their body.

Because the Warrior understands a secret that most people never learn:

Action creates clarity. Action builds belief. Action awakens identity.

The Day My War Began

I didn’t become a Weight Loss Warrior because I had everything figured out.

I began my journey while still weighing 367 pounds.

I began before I knew if it would work.

I began without support, a personal trainer, a nutritionist, or a fancy gym.

All I had was the truth:

I couldn’t live like that anymore.

So I walked. Just a little at first.

I changed one thing about my meals. Then another.

I started learning about plant-based nutrition. I started cooking for myself.

I didn’t overhaul my life in a day.

I took one small step. Then I took another.

And over time, those steps became a path.

A path that led to the loss of 224 pounds.

And the gain of a new life.

But it all started with one quiet, ordinary decision:

“I will no longer wait to become the person I know I can be.”

Start Where You Are. Use What You Have.

You don’t need a gym membership to begin.

You don’t need to eat perfectly.

You don’t need to walk 10 miles today.

You need to do something—and do it today.

Take a 10-minute walk
Drink a tall glass of water instead of soda
Write down three reasons you want to change
Prep one healthy meal
Throw out one item in your pantry that’s been sabotaging you
Read one chapter of this book and act on it

The Warrior’s Way doesn’t begin in a perfect body.

It begins in a determined heart.

The Warrior’s Choice

“You won’t always feel like doing it. But you’ll always feel better after doing it.”

When you act like a Warrior, you don’t just lose weight.

You gain credibility with yourself.

You start to believe:

“If I can do this today, I can do it tomorrow too.”

“If I’m strong enough to begin, I’m strong enough to continue.”

“If I’m tired but I still show up, I am becoming powerful.”

Every time you choose the hard right over the easy wrong, you reinforce your Warrior identity.

Reflection

Take a moment right now to answer these questions in your journal:

What have you been waiting for before fully committing to your weight loss journey?
What’s one small action you can take today, without waiting for motivation?
What would your life look like in one year if you chose action over hesitation—starting right now?

Warrior Affirmation

“I do not wait for change. I become it. I do the work. I walk the path. I am ready now.”

Action Step

Pick one of the following (or create your own):

Walk for 10–15 minutes immediately after reading this chapter
Prepare or eat a whole-food, plant-based meal today
Declutter your kitchen: remove 3 items that don’t serve your health
Repeat today’s affirmation out loud, 10 times
Text someone: “I’ve started something new today. I’ll tell you more soon.”

The Warrior doesn’t wait for the battle. They train for it. And they live like every step is preparation for something greater.

So stop waiting.

Start becoming.

Chapter 3 - Why Diets Don’t Work and Why “The Way” Does?

Chapter 3: Why Diets Don’t Work — And Why the Way Does

You’ve tried the short-term fixes. Now it’s time to live the long-term way.

“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.”

— Often attributed to Albert Einstein

It’s time to get honest.

You’re not here because this is your first attempt.

You’re here because it’s your fifteenth. Or your fiftieth.

You’ve counted points.

You’ve cut carbs.

You’ve skipped meals.

You’ve tried juice cleanses, fat burners, intermittent fasting, and apps that promised to track your every move and fix your body overnight.

You’ve been there.

You’ve done that.

And in the end, you were left with three things:

Temporary results
Frustration
A growing sense that maybe something’s wrong with you

Let me say this as clearly as possible:

There is nothing wrong with you. There’s something wrong with the system.

Diets Are Designed to Fail

The modern diet industry is a multi-billion dollar machine.

Its survival depends on one thing:

Your repeated failure.

That might sound harsh, but look closely:

Diet programs focus on extreme restriction
They rely on short-term motivation instead of long-term systems
They disconnect you from your own body and hunger signals
They sell “weight loss” without building a sustainable lifestyle

And here’s the kicker:

When the diet doesn’t work long-term, they tell you it’s your fault.

But the truth is… diets weren’t built to empower you.

They were built to keep you dependent.

MPWLC wasn’t built like that.

What Makes The Way Different

The Weight Loss Warrior’s Way isn’t a diet. It’s not a plan. It’s not even a program.

It’s a way of living.

The goal isn’t to “lose weight quickly.”

The goal is to become someone who no longer carries excess weight—because their identity, habits, and life no longer support it.

Here’s how The Way differs from the diet mindset:

DIETS	THE WARRIOR’S WAY
Focus on restriction	Focus on nourishment and balance
Obsess over scale numbers	Honor non-scale victories (mood, energy, digestion, confidence)
Expect perfection	Expect persistence
Use shame and guilt	Build strength and self-respect
Last 4–12 weeks	Last for the rest of your life
Require motivation	Build systems and identity
Sell dependency	Teach self-reliance and freedom

Diets Target Behavior. The Way Targets Identity.

One of the most powerful teachings in Atomic Habits by James Clear is this:

“True behavior change is identity change.”

If you want to lose weight and keep it off, you can’t just change what you do.

You must change how you see yourself.

“I’m trying to lose weight” becomes:“I’m someone who prioritizes my health.”
“I’m cutting out sugar” becomes:“I don’t eat things that hurt my body.”
“I’m on a weight loss plan” becomes:“This is just how I live now.”

You’re not on a diet.

You’re walking the path of a Warrior.

And the Warrior does the work—every day, not just until they hit a goal.

Why Diets Damage Your Confidence

Every time you start a new diet with high hopes…

…and fall off track a few weeks later…

…your self-trust erodes a little more.

You begin to doubt yourself.

You stop believing you’re capable of lasting change.

You say things like:

“Maybe I’m just meant to be overweight.”
“I just have bad genes.”
“I always sabotage myself.”
“I can lose it—but I always gain it back.”

These aren’t facts.

They’re stories you’ve internalized from a broken system.

It’s time to write a new one.

What Success Looks Like in The Way

In the Warrior’s Way, success doesn’t look like a number on a scale.

It looks like:

Cooking your meals instead of ordering out
Going for a walk instead of giving in to stress
Drinking water when you’re tired
Saying no to things that don’t serve you
Sleeping well, thinking clearly, moving freely, and living lightly

When you live this way consistently, the weight takes care of itself.

Reflection

Take a few moments to write down your answers to the following questions:

How many diets have you tried in your lifetime?
What patterns do you notice between them?
What would it feel like to stop dieting forever—and simply live in a way that supports your best health?

Warrior Affirmation

“I don’t diet. I live with discipline, nourishment, and love. I am the kind of person who does the work.”

Action Step

Choose one or more of these actions to break free from the diet mindset:

Write out a personal “I am” statement that reflects your new identity (e.g., “I am a healthy person who makes strong choices.”)
Discard or delete any old diet books, calorie charts, or shame-based tools you’ve been holding onto
Say today’s affirmation out loud—ten times
Choose one Warrior habit and practice it today: a walk, a healthy meal, a glass of water, a good night’s rest

Diets are temporary. The Way is forever. Diets restrict. The Way empowers. Diets fade. Warriors endure.

Let the world sell diets to the desperate.

You’ve chosen something stronger.

You’ve chosen to become a Warrior.

Chapter 4 - Chop Wood, Carry Water, Lose the Weight

Chapter 4: Chop Wood, Carry Water, Lose the Weight

Greatness hides in what you do when no one is watching.

“Everyone wants to be great, until it’s time to do what greatness requires.”

— Joshua Medcalf, Chop Wood Carry Water

If there were a secret to permanent weight loss, it would look something like this:

Eat real food
Walk every day
Get good sleep
Stay hydrated
Manage stress
Repeat. Every. Day.

Unimpressed? Bored? Looking for something more exciting?

That’s exactly the problem.

We’ve been conditioned to believe that transformation should feel dramatic and look like a highlight reel.

But the truth is far less glamorous:

Transformation hides in repetition. Mastery hides in the mundane. Freedom hides in doing the simple things over and over—until they become who you are.

That’s the message at the heart of Chop Wood Carry Water by Joshua Medcalf:

True greatness doesn’t come from doing flashy things.

It comes from doing the foundational things—every single day, whether you feel like it or not.

Chop Wood, Carry Water — What It Really Means

In the book, a young man trains to become a samurai archer. But instead of being handed a bow and sent into glory, he’s given the same two daily tasks:

Chop wood
Carry water

Every day.

Without complaint.

Without shortcut.

Without applause.

Why?

Because in order to become great at something, you must first become grounded in discipline.

That lesson is the perfect metaphor for the weight loss journey.

You don’t lose 20, 50, or 100 pounds by doing one big thing.

You lose it—and keep it off—by doing small, boring, consistent things when no one’s watching.

You chop the wood: You prepare a simple, healthy meal.
You carry the water: You go for a walk, even when you’re tired.
You chop the wood: You drink water instead of soda.
You carry the water: You write in your journal, even when nothing dramatic happened.
You chop the wood: You stretch before bed instead of scrolling.
You carry the water: You rest. You rise. You repeat.

The Warrior’s Path is Repetitive by Design

Let’s be honest:

You probably already know what to do.

But knowing isn’t the same as doing.

And doing isn’t the same as repeating.

This is where most people fall off the path:

They confuse interest with identity.

They’re interested in losing weight.

But they haven’t committed to becoming someone who lives differently.

That’s why The Way of the Weight Loss Warrior works:

It transforms your identity through repetition.

Every act of consistency is a vote for the person you are becoming.

Why Boredom Is a Sign You’re on the Right Path

We live in a dopamine-driven world.

Everything is about stimulation, novelty, speed.

But healing?

Transformation?

Mastery?

They live in silence. They live in structure. They live in repetition.

If you’re bored by the process—good.

That means you’re doing the real work.

You don’t need another tip or hack.

You need to keep showing up for what already works.

My Life Has Been Built on Chopping Wood

Let me tell you what my “highlight reel” looks like:

I’ve walked over 69,000 miles over the last 16+ years
I walk 13+ miles per day, rain or shine (I didn’t start out with that much, but that’s what it’s grown into, over time)
I lost 224 pounds by eating simple, real food and moving daily
I’ve kept the weight off without drugs or surgeries
I’ve done the work—every single day

There’s nothing flashy about that.

No secrets. No gimmicks. No before-and-after edits.

Just wood.

Just water.

Just discipline.

And it changed my life.

What This Means for You

You don’t have to copy my mileage.

You don’t have to be perfect.

You just have to be willing.

Willing to walk when it’s uncomfortable
Willing to cook when you’re tired
Willing to show up when the scale doesn’t move
Willing to believe that small things matter
Willing to keep doing what works—even when it’s boring

That’s what Warriors do. They chop the wood. They carry the water. And they lose the weight—because they’ve become someone who does the work.

Reflection

Grab your journal and answer:

What’s one “chop wood” action I’ve been avoiding?
What’s one “carry water” habit I can commit to today—no matter what?
How do I react to boredom? Can I reframe it as a sign that I’m on the right path?

Warrior Affirmation

“I do the work—especially when it’s boring. My transformation lives in my repetition.”

Action Step

Choose at least one of these and do it today:

Prepare one whole-food, plant-based meal yourself
Take a walk (any distance) with your phone in airplane mode
Fill up a water bottle and finish it by the end of the day
Write down 3 things you did today that no one will see—but you know matter
Repeat the affirmation aloud while walking

You want to lose the weight?

Do what Warriors do.

Chop the wood. Carry the water. Lose the weight. Live the way.

PART II - CHOP THE WOOD

PART II – CHOP THE WOOD

The Daily Practices of the Warrior

This is where the work begins.

Not the glamorous kind.

Not the Instagrammable kind.

Not the kind that wins applause or draws attention.

The quiet kind.

The repetitive kind.

The kind that changes your life—because it changes you.

In Part I, we answered the call to battle.

We explored why diets don’t work, why waiting is a trap, and why The Warrior’s Way is different. You’ve begun to shift your identity from someone who tries to someone who trains.

Now, in Part II, we focus on practice.

This is where theory becomes action.

This is where inspiration becomes behavior.

This is where the Warrior is forged—one day at a time.

You’ll learn the essential practices of the MPWLC lifestyle:

Repetition and identity-building
Consistency over perfection
Eating for fuel, not for escape
Walking as a daily act of healing and discipline
Building momentum through small, repeated victories
Doing the work even when no one’s watching

Each of these chapters is built around a simple idea:

The Warrior’s power lies in what they repeat.

Every time you chop the wood—prepare a meal, go for a walk, stay the course—you prove something to yourself.

Every time you carry the water—journal, hydrate, rest, breathe—you cast another vote for who you are becoming.

This section is not about being perfect.

It’s about being deliberate.

It’s not about information.

It’s about integration.

So sharpen your axe.

Roll up your sleeves.

And step fully into the daily rhythm of the Warrior.

Let’s begin.

Chapter 5 - You Are What You Repeat

Chapter 5: You Are What You Repeat

Your habits are not just what you do. They are who you become.

“Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become.”

— James Clear, Atomic Habits

We love to think of transformation as a moment.

As one big decision.

One breakthrough. One aha moment. One dramatic day.

But real transformation doesn’t happen in a moment.

It happens in millions of them—stacked together, day after day.

Think about it:

You don’t gain 50 pounds overnight
You don’t lose 50 pounds overnight
You don’t become unhealthy in a week
And you won’t become healthy in one either

You become what you repeatedly do.

That’s the Warrior’s Way.

You Don’t Rise to the Level of Your Goals…

You fall to the level of your systems.

James Clear said it best in Atomic Habits:

“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”

Most people have goals like:

“I want to lose 30 pounds”
“I want to eat healthier”
“I want to walk more”

But goals don’t change your life.

Systems do.

Habits do.

Repetition does.

The Warrior doesn’t rely on hope.

The Warrior builds structure.

Your Brain Is Always Listening

Your subconscious mind learns through repetition.

Every time you walk instead of skip exercise—

Every time you say no to fast food—

Every time you make a healthy plate of real, whole food—

You’re casting a vote.

A vote for the kind of person you’re becoming.

Even if the scale doesn’t move right away.

Even if nobody notices yet.

You’re teaching your brain: “This is who I am now.”

Build Your Identity Brick by Brick

Let’s say you do one of the following things today:

Drink 20 ounces of water first thing in the morning
Cook a meal at home instead of ordering takeout
Take a 15-minute walk after lunch
Go to bed 30 minutes earlier than usual
Write in your MPWLC journal instead of doom-scrolling

That might seem small.

But now imagine doing it every day for the next 100 days.

That’s 100 votes for:

“I am someone who honors my health.”
“I am someone who follows through.”
“I am someone who takes care of my body.”
“I am someone who lives differently now.”

Each action lays a brick.

Brick by brick, you build a new you.

What Happens When You Don’t Repeat?

When you stop taking action—even the small ones—you don’t just lose results.

You start losing trust in yourself.

And that self-trust is everything.

Without it, you hesitate. You doubt. You delay.

You start thinking:

“Maybe I’m not meant to lose the weight.”
“Maybe this just isn’t for me.”
“I’ll probably quit eventually, just like before.”

The Warrior recognizes those voices as lies.

Voices from the past.

Voices from fear.

And then… the Warrior acts anyway.

Repetition Is Resistance Training for the Mind

Think of your daily habits as reps at the mental gym.

Every time you say “no” to something that isn’t aligned with your goals, you strengthen your discipline.
Every time you say “yes” to something that builds your health, you reinforce your belief.
Every time you repeat a small win, you increase your momentum.

Eventually, what was once hard becomes automatic.

Not because it’s easy—but because you’ve become someone different.

Real Change Is Identity Change

You don’t “lose weight.”

You become a person who lives at a healthy weight.

You don’t “try harder.”

You become a person who no longer needs to try.

You don’t “hope it works this time.”

You become someone for whom it will work—because you are doing the work.

This is the work of a Warrior.

And it begins with what you do today.

And again tomorrow.

And again the day after that.

Reflection

Answer these in your journal:

What current habits are casting votes for the old version of you?
What small, daily habit could cast votes for the new version of you?
What identity do you want your daily actions to reinforce?

Warrior Affirmation

“Every choice I make is a vote for the person I’m becoming. I choose to become strong, healthy, focused, and free.”

Action Step

Build repetition today:

Write out your desired identity (e.g., “I am a Weight Loss Warrior”) and post it somewhere visible
Repeat today’s affirmation aloud—10 times
Choose one habit to repeat for the next 7 days and track it
Begin your MPWLC Daily Journal if you haven’t already

You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be consistent. Because what you repeat—you become.

And the Warrior repeats what works.

Chapter 6 - You Don’t Have to Be Perfect — You Just Have to Be Consistent

Chapter 6: You Don’t Have to Be Perfect — You Just Have to Be Consistent

Perfection is a trap. Consistency is the way.

“Success is the product of daily habits—not once-in-a-lifetime transformations.”

— James Clear, Atomic Habits

Most people who fail at weight loss don’t fail because they didn’t know what to do.

They fail because they expected themselves to be perfect.

One skipped workout = “I blew it.”
One slice of cake = “I ruined everything.”
One bad day = “What’s the point?”

This all-or-nothing mindset is toxic. It creates shame. It fuels guilt. And most importantly, it destroys momentum.

The Warrior knows better.

The Warrior understands that progress is not about being flawless. It’s about being faithful. It’s about showing up more often than not. It’s about returning to the path—again and again and again.

The Warrior doesn’t need to be perfect.

The Warrior just needs to be consistent.

The Illusion of the “Perfect Plan”

The world is full of “perfect” diets and fitness programs.

Perfect macros.

Perfect calorie counts.

Perfect schedules.

Perfect morning routines.

Perfect food-prep templates.

Perfect “before and after” photos.

But life isn’t perfect. Neither are people. And the pursuit of perfection almost always leads to quitting.

Because when people can’t be perfect, they assume it’s not worth continuing.

The Warrior sees through that illusion.

They don’t chase perfection.

They chase alignment.

Not “Did I eat perfectly today?”

But “Did I honor my health today?”

Not “Did I hit 10,000 steps?”

But “Did I move my body today?”

Not “Did I follow the plan exactly?”

But “Did I take one strong step forward today?”

That’s consistency.

That’s what builds momentum.

And momentum beats perfection every time.

Success is Messy — And That’s Okay

You will have off days.

You will feel tired.

You will miss workouts.

You will eat things that don’t serve your goals.

And none of that has to stop you.

You’re not defined by what you do once.

You’re defined by what you do next.

Consistency is what you do after a bad meal.

After a missed walk.

After a night of poor sleep.

After a weekend where the plan fell apart.

Most people fall into the trap of “starting over.”

The Warrior simply keeps going.

The 80/20 Mindset

You don’t need to do everything right 100% of the time.

If you consistently make the healthy choice 80% of the time, you will make enormous progress. And if you keep doing that over time, it becomes your default mode of living.

Here’s what that looks like:

You walk 6 days a week, not 7
You cook most of your meals, not all
You choose water most of the time, but enjoy a treat occasionally
You journal when you can, and forgive yourself when you don’t

The difference? You never quit.

You never tell yourself, “I failed, so I might as well give up.”

Instead, you say, “I stumbled—but I’m still on the path.”

That’s how Warriors win.

The Cost of Perfectionism

Perfectionism often disguises itself as “high standards.”

But it’s really a form of fear:

Fear of being seen struggling
Fear of doing it wrong
Fear of starting and not finishing
Fear of not being good enough

Perfectionism says: “If I can’t do it flawlessly, I won’t do it at all.”

The Warrior says: “I will do it anyway. And I will get better with time.”

Because perfect never arrives.

But progress is available every single day.

My Progress Was Not Perfect

My own journey—from 367 pounds to 143—was far from perfect.

There were setbacks. There were holidays. There were cravings. There were emotional days. There were moments I didn’t feel like walking, cooking, or staying the course.

But I kept showing up.

I kept walking.

I kept choosing.

I kept going.

That’s consistency.

Not perfection.

Not willpower.

Just showing up.

Just doing the next right thing—again and again—until my identity caught up with my actions.

And that’s how I kept the weight off.

That’s how I became a Weight Loss Warrior.

And that’s how you will too.

Reflection

In what areas of your life has perfectionism held you back?
What does “consistency” look like for you in this season?
What would change if you let go of being perfect and focused only on showing up?

Warrior Affirmation

“I don’t need to be perfect. I only need to be consistent. I am someone who shows up, again and again.”

Action Step

Pick one small action today and repeat it—even if yesterday wasn’t perfect:

Prepare one healthy meal
Go for a walk, even if it’s short
Drink a full glass of water first thing in the morning
Write a single sentence in your journal
Re-read the last affirmation out loud, three times

Commit to doing that action for the next 3 days, no matter what.

Perfection creates pressure.

Consistency creates change.

You don’t need to be perfect to become powerful.

You just need to stay in the fight.

Keep showing up.

Keep doing the work.

That’s what Warriors do.

Chapter 7 - Warrior Fuel

Chapter 7: Warrior Fuel

Eat like your life depends on it—because it does.

“Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food.”

— Hippocrates

What do Warriors eat?

They eat to live, to train, to heal, and to thrive.

A Warrior doesn’t eat out of boredom.

A Warrior doesn’t eat to numb their emotions.

A Warrior doesn’t eat to escape from life.

A Warrior eats to rise into it.

And that begins by changing your relationship with food—from a form of entertainment, escape, or punishment, into what it was always meant to be: fuel.

Why Most People Are Malnourished… in a World of Excess

Obesity is not just the result of overeating.

It’s the result of overeating the wrong things—and undereating what the body actually needs.

We live in a paradox:

More people than ever are overweight, yet nutritionally starving.

Ultra-processed foods are engineered to be addictive, not nourishing.
They light up pleasure centers while delivering almost nothing the body needs.
They hijack hunger signals and leave you constantly craving more.
They lead to chronic inflammation, insulin resistance, and emotional instability.

When you treat your body like a landfill, it responds accordingly—with weight gain, fatigue, depression, and disease.

But when you feed your body like a temple, it begins to heal.

The MPWLC Nutritional Philosophy

We don’t count calories.

We don’t obsess over macros.

We don’t moralize food as “good” or “bad.”

We simplify.

We eat whole, real, plant-based food.

We eat food that grows from the earth.

We avoid things that come in shiny packages with ingredient lists that sound like science experiments.

Here’s what Warrior Fuel looks like:

Fresh fruits and vegetables
Whole grains like brown rice, quinoa, millet, and oats
Legumes like lentils, beans, peas, and chickpeas
Nuts and seeds in moderation
Herbs, spices, and water as foundational daily staples

Warrior Fuel is simple.

It’s satisfying.

And it’s exactly what your body has been craving all along.

Why Simplicity Wins

You don’t need a complicated meal plan.

You need go-to meals that nourish you and are easy to prepare.

For example:

A bowl of brown rice, steamed greens, and seasoned lentils
Overnight oats with bananas, chia seeds, and cinnamon
A big salad with chickpeas, avocado, and lemon-tahini dressing
A vegetable stir-fry over quinoa or millet
A smoothie made with berries, bananas, greens, flax, and water or unsweetened plant milk

The Warrior doesn’t eat for entertainment.

The Warrior eats with intention.

The Role of Preparation

One of the most underrated Warrior skills is meal preparation.

If you don’t plan ahead, the modern world will choose for you.

And it will choose processed, packaged, hyper-palatable, convenience food.

To win the food battle:

Keep your kitchen stocked with Warrior ingredients
Batch cook staples like rice, beans, soups, or sauces
Know your go-to meals and rotate them
Keep your environment clean and supportive

Success doesn’t start in the moment of decision.

It starts with the environment you’ve created long before you’re hungry.

The Myth of Deprivation

One of the biggest fears people have is:

“If I eat healthy, I’ll never get to enjoy food again.”

Let’s be clear:

We don’t believe in deprivation.

We believe in upgrading pleasure.

Because when your taste buds reset, real food becomes delicious again:

A perfectly ripe mango is more satisfying than candy
A hot bowl of seasoned lentils is more comforting than fast food
A crisp apple, a handful of nuts, or a bowl of fresh berries becomes a moment of joy

You’re not depriving yourself.

You’re liberating yourself—from food addiction, energy crashes, mood swings, and chronic fatigue.

What I Eat as a Warrior

People often ask me what I eat.

The answer? Simple, plant-based, whole foods. Every day.

I start with fruit or oats.
I eat big salads, steamed vegetables, legumes, and grains.
I hydrate constantly.
I keep my meals clean and unprocessed.
I rarely eat anything with a label.

My diet isn’t flashy.

But it works.

And it has fueled me to walk more than 69,000 miles, lose 224 pounds, and keep it off naturally.

That’s Warrior Fuel.

What You Eat Is a Daily Decision About Who You’re Becoming

Every meal is a choice.

Do you want to feel light or heavy?
Focused or foggy?
Calm or chaotic?
Energized or exhausted?

You don’t need to be perfect.

You just need to eat like someone who respects their body and their future.

Because Warriors don’t punish themselves with food.

They empower themselves with it.

Reflection

What is your current relationship with food—fuel, escape, habit, comfort, or something else?
What simple whole foods do you actually enjoy and could eat regularly?
What is one small step you can take this week to clean up your eating environment?

Warrior Affirmation

“I eat to nourish my body, sharpen my mind, and honor my path. Food is my fuel—not my escape.”

Action Step

Choose one of the following to implement today:

Prepare one whole-food, plant-based meal at home
Remove three processed items from your pantry or fridge
Create a Warrior grocery list and restock your kitchen
Journal what you ate today—and how it made you feel
Try a new plant-based food or recipe you’ve never had before

You don’t need another diet.

You need to fuel your body like a Warrior.

Eat with purpose.

Eat with peace.

Eat like you’re building something strong.

Because you are.

Chapter 8 - Walk The Warrior Path

Chapter 8: Walk the Warrior Path

One step at a time. One mile at a time. One life changed.

“An early-morning walk is a blessing for the whole day.”

— Henry David Thoreau

If you asked me to name the single most powerful tool I used to lose 224 pounds and keep it off—without drugs or surgeries—my answer would be simple:

Walking.

Every single day.

In heat and cold.

In joy and discomfort.

In strength and struggle.

I walked when I felt motivated.

I walked when I didn’t want to.

I walked when I felt broken.

I walked until I rebuilt myself.

Walking was never just about burning calories.

It was about building momentum, resilience, and clarity—step by step.

And that’s why it is one of the core pillars of The Way of the Weight Loss Warrior.

Walking Is the Ultimate Warrior Practice

No gym required.

No membership needed.

No equipment necessary.

Just your body. Your breath. Your willingness.

Walking does more than move your body—it transforms your mind.

It clears your thoughts.

It lowers your stress.

It reconnects you to the present moment.

It pulls you out of your head and into your life.

You don’t need to run marathons.

You just need to walk with purpose.

My Walking Journey

I’ve walked over 69,000 miles in the last 16+ years.

That’s more than two and a half times around the Earth at the equator.

At times, I’ve walked over 13 miles a day—roughly a half marathon, every day.

I didn’t start with those numbers. I built up to them slowly, through daily effort, trial, error, and commitment. It became my sacred practice. My therapy. My anchor. My gift to myself.

Walking helped me lose the weight.

Walking helps me maintain the weight.

And walking helps me live a focused, energized, healthy life.

Why Walking Works (and Why It’s Underrated)

People often underestimate walking because it seems too simple.

But simplicity is what makes it sustainable.

Walking is:

Low-impact and joint-friendly
Excellent for cardiovascular health
A natural stress reducer
Proven to improve mood, sleep, digestion, and cognition
Accessible to nearly everyone, at nearly any fitness level
Easy to do anywhere, anytime
A natural way to regulate blood sugar and balance hormones
A momentum builder—and a mind clearer

It’s not just physical. It’s emotional. Mental. Spiritual.

Walking as Meditation

In a world of digital noise and constant distraction, walking provides something rare:

Stillness. Presence. Reflection.

Walking without your phone.

Walking without music or podcasts.

Walking just to breathe. To notice. To be.

This is walking as meditation.

This is walking as integration.

When you walk with intention, you process emotions.

You download insights.

You calm the nervous system.

You reset your energy.

Every step becomes a sacred act of returning to yourself.

How to Build a Walking Habit

You don’t have to start with miles.

You start with minutes.

Try this:

Start with 10–15 minutes a day
Add a few minutes each week
Walk after meals to regulate blood sugar and digestion
Use walking as a natural energy booster
Treat walking as a non-negotiable, like brushing your teeth
Walk in silence at least once a week to reconnect with your mind

Consistency is more powerful than intensity.

The Warrior doesn’t walk to impress.

The Warrior walks to transform.

Common Excuses—and Warrior Responses

“I don’t have time.”

You have time to scroll, to snack, to binge-watch. You can walk 10 minutes. You have time.

“The weather’s bad.”

There’s gear for that. Warriors dress for the conditions. Or walk indoors.

“I’m too tired.”

Walk anyway. It will give you energy.

“It’s boring.”

Boredom is where the real work happens. Breathe. Listen. Observe. Learn to be with yourself.

What Walking Represents

Walking is more than exercise.

It’s a metaphor for the entire Warrior journey.

One step at a time
Day after day
Quiet effort
No shortcuts
No applause
Just movement
Just momentum
Just you, walking yourself into your future

Every step is a declaration:

“I am not giving up on myself.”

“I am showing up for my life.”

“I am becoming something more.”

Reflection

How do you currently feel about walking—is it something you enjoy, avoid, or overlook?
What obstacles keep you from walking regularly? How can you remove or bypass them?
What would change in your body, mind, or life if you committed to walking consistently?

Warrior Affirmation

“With every step I take, I become stronger, clearer, and more grounded. Walking is my way forward.”

Action Step

Choose one of the following walking practices today:

Take a 10-minute walk immediately after your next meal
Walk in silence without your phone for at least 5 minutes
Commit to walking every day this week—even if only for 5 minutes
Track your steps and aim to increase by 1–2% each week
Write about how walking makes you feel before and after

The Warrior doesn’t wait for motivation.

The Warrior walks anyway.

Because with each step, you don’t just burn calories—

You burn away doubt.

You burn away fear.

You burn away the old you.

And you walk into the life you were always meant to live.

Chapter 9 - Track The True Victories

Chapter 9: Track the True Victories

If the scale is the only thing you’re measuring, you’re missing the transformation.

“Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts.”

— William Bruce Cameron

There’s a moment in every weight loss journey when the scale stops cooperating.

You’ve been walking.

You’ve been eating better.

You’ve been doing the work.

And the scale… doesn’t move.

Or worse—it goes up a pound or two.

In that moment, most people panic.

They question everything.

They tell themselves, “It’s not working.”

And many quit.

But here’s the truth:

The scale is not the best measure of your success.

In fact, it’s often the least accurate, least helpful, and least motivating tool in your journey.

The Warrior knows better.

The Warrior tracks the true victories—the ones that can’t always be measured by a number.

The Problem With the Scale

Let’s start with the basics.

Your weight fluctuates naturally for a hundred different reasons:

Water retention
Inflammation
Hormonal shifts
Muscle gain
Time of day
Sleep quality
Sodium intake
Stress levels

You can eat perfectly, walk every day, and still see the number bounce around.

So if your entire emotional state is tied to that number, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.

The Warrior breaks free from this trap.

The Warrior sees the scale as one piece of data—not the full story.

What Really Matters: Non-Scale Victories (NSVs)

The true signs of progress are often invisible at first—but they are powerful, lasting, and transformational.

Here are just a few of the non-scale victories you might begin to notice:

More energy throughout the day
Less joint pain or stiffness
Improved digestion and regularity
Sleeping better at night
Clearer skin and brighter eyes
Reduced cravings and emotional eating
Fewer headaches or body aches
More confidence getting dressed
Pants fitting looser
Standing up taller with better posture
Feeling proud of yourself for keeping a promise
Increased ability to handle stress
Saying “no” to something that used to derail you
Making your first meal from scratch
Finishing a walk even when you didn’t feel like it

None of these show up on the scale.

But they all signal something even better:

You’re becoming someone new.

Why NSVs Are More Important Than the Number

The number on the scale can change with a glass of water or a salty meal.

But the victories listed above? Those represent real transformation.

Because permanent weight loss is never just about body fat.

It’s about healing your life.

It’s about reclaiming your dignity.

It’s about feeling empowered in your own skin.

It’s about knowing, deep down: “I did this. And I’m not going back.”

These wins may not be flashy.

But they are real.

And when you learn to notice and celebrate them, you never lose motivation again.

Rewriting the Definition of Progress

Progress is not perfection.

Progress is not linear.

Progress is not just physical.

Progress is:

Walking when you don’t feel like it
Making a better choice than yesterday
Holding boundaries with yourself
Cooking at home more often
Drinking more water than soda
Being patient with yourself when you stumble

The Warrior doesn’t chase numbers.

The Warrior chases alignment.

And alignment builds momentum that no scale can measure.

How to Track What Matters

To measure your real progress, try tracking the following:

Energy levels – Are you crashing less throughout the day?
Sleep quality – Are you falling asleep faster or waking up more refreshed?
Mood and stress response – Are you reacting less emotionally to challenges?
Digestion – Are you regular? Less bloated? Less heartburn?
Movement – Are you walking more easily? Going further?
Clothing fit – Do your clothes feel looser or more comfortable?
Mindset – Are you speaking more kindly to yourself? Are you more hopeful?

Record these wins. Celebrate them.

Because they are proof that your efforts are working—even when the scale says otherwise.

My Own NSVs

Long before I reached my goal weight, I noticed something:

I wasn’t getting winded going up stairs
I was sleeping better
I was thinking more clearly
My knees didn’t ache as much
I was moving faster
My confidence was returning

These victories came before the number moved much.

And they kept me going when the process felt slow.

Eventually, the scale caught up with who I had already become.

That’s what happens when you do the work—with faith, not fear.

Reflection

What non-scale victories have you already experienced in your journey so far?
How would your motivation change if you stopped focusing on weight and started tracking energy, mood, and movement instead?
What can you begin tracking this week that would reflect your real progress?

Warrior Affirmation

“I do not need the scale to tell me who I am. My progress lives in how I feel, how I think, and how I show up every day.”

Action Step

Begin tracking your non-scale victories:

Create a small section in your journal titled “True Victories”
Each evening, list at least one non-scale win for the day
Review this list weekly to remind yourself how far you’ve come
Share one of your NSVs in a group, community, or with someone you trust

You are not just losing pounds.

You’re gaining power.

You’re gaining pride.

You’re gaining peace.

And those are victories worth counting.

Every time you show up, you win.

Even when the scale doesn’t move.

That’s what it means to be a Warrior.

Chapter 10 - Discipline Is A Weapon

Chapter 10: Discipline Is a Weapon

Motivation fades. Discipline fights.

“We must all suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret.”

— Jim Rohn

When most people hear the word “discipline,” they think of something harsh.

They imagine boot camps and barking commands.

They associate discipline with restriction, punishment, or even shame.

They confuse it with control or willpower.

But the Warrior sees discipline differently.

To a Warrior, discipline is not punishment.

Discipline is freedom.

Discipline is the weapon that cuts through doubt, delay, and self-sabotage.

Discipline is what separates those who want results from those who earn them.

The Problem With Motivation

People often say, “I just need to get motivated.”

But here’s the truth:

Motivation is a mood.

It comes and goes. It rises and falls. It’s fickle and unreliable.

There will be days when you wake up inspired.

And there will be days when you don’t.

If your health depends on your mood, your progress will be inconsistent at best—and nonexistent at worst.

But discipline?

Discipline shows up when motivation disappears.

Discipline doesn’t care how you feel.

Discipline does the work anyway.

Discipline Is the Real Self-Love

We’re often told that self-love means treating yourself, resting, being kind.

And while that’s true, there’s another kind of self-love we don’t talk about enough:

The self-love of keeping promises to yourself.

The self-love of holding a standard.

The self-love of doing the hard thing—because you’re worth it.

Discipline says:

“I won’t let my cravings control me.”
“I won’t break this habit just because I’m tired.”
“I won’t quit on myself again.”

It’s not always easy. But it’s always empowering.

Discipline is the ultimate act of respect toward your future self.

What Discipline Looks Like for the Warrior

Discipline doesn’t have to be extreme.

It doesn’t mean pushing yourself until you collapse.

It means doing what matters—consistently—even when no one’s watching.

Warrior discipline looks like:

Going for your walk even if it’s raining
Cooking your food even if you’re tired
Drinking water when what you really want is something sweet
Saying no when saying yes would be easier
Tracking your progress even when the results are small
Keeping your routine intact when your schedule changes
Getting back on track immediately after slipping

These aren’t big things.

They’re ordinary things, done extraordinarily well.

That’s what builds strength.

How Discipline Builds Identity

Every time you act with discipline, you reinforce your Warrior identity.

You send a message to your mind:

“This is who I am now.”

“I don’t negotiate with excuses.”

“I do what needs to be done—because that’s what I do.”

That’s how discipline becomes automatic.

Not through force. But through alignment.

You no longer ask, “Do I feel like doing it?”

You simply do it—because that’s who you are.

And over time, that identity becomes unshakable.

When Discipline Feels Hard

There will be moments when you want to give up.

Moments when your mind says, “This isn’t worth it.”

Moments when your body feels sluggish or your emotions feel heavy.

In those moments, discipline becomes sacred.

You can say to yourself:

“I’ve felt this before—and I kept going.”
“This is just resistance—it will pass.”
“Discipline now equals freedom later.”
“Every time I do this when it’s hard, I become stronger.”

The Warrior doesn’t just train when it’s easy.

The Warrior is forged in the hard moments.

That’s where power is built.

My Life Runs on Discipline

My transformation wasn’t fueled by motivation.

It was fueled by discipline—stacked across decades.

I walk over 13 miles per day. Not when it’s convenient—every day.
I eat clean, whole, plant-based meals. Not just when I feel like it—every day.
I sleep, hydrate, reflect, and act with consistency.

Discipline didn’t restrict me.

It freed me—from obesity, exhaustion, and excuses.

It gave me my life back.

You Have Discipline Already

Discipline isn’t something you’re born with or without.

It’s something you build—by taking small, repeated actions.

You already use discipline in other areas of life:

You show up for work when you’re tired
You take care of your kids even when you’re overwhelmed
You’ve kept commitments when it mattered to someone else

Now it’s time to use that same power—for yourself.

Because you are worth it.

And your future depends on it.

Reflection

What does discipline mean to you—and how has that definition helped or hurt you?
In what areas of life have you already proven your ability to be disciplined?
What’s one daily health practice you can commit to, no matter what?

Warrior Affirmation

“I am not waiting for motivation. I act with discipline. My future is shaped by what I do today.”

Action Step

Begin strengthening your discipline muscle with one of the following:

Choose one health behavior to make non-negotiable for 7 days (walk, water, food prep, etc.)
Create a “discipline ritual” you perform every morning to anchor your identity
Write a letter to your future self—remind them what today’s discipline is building
Catch yourself when excuses arise—and act anyway

Discipline is not a burden.

It’s a blade—a sharpened weapon in the hands of the Warrior.

It cuts through excuses.

It shapes identity.

And it forges freedom.

Pick it up. Wield it well.

Because your greatest victories will not come from what you feel like doing.

They will come from what you do—anyway.

PART III – CARRY THE WATER

The Inner Work of the Warrior

You’ve been chopping the wood. You’ve learned to walk, to fuel, to act with consistency and discipline. You’ve begun building a new way of life—one small choice at a time.

Now it’s time to carry the water.

If chopping the wood is the outer work—habits, food, movement— then carrying the water is the inner work.

This is where transformation takes root.

Because permanent weight loss is never just about what you eat. It’s also about:

What you believe about yourself
What you feel, but haven’t yet processed
What you’ve been taught to suppress, avoid, or numb
How you respond to pain, shame, fear, and uncertainty
Whether you’re fighting your body—or learning to honor it

You can walk a thousand miles and still carry emotional weight that drags you down.

You can eat all the right food but still binge in moments of anxiety or sadness.

You can build perfect discipline and still self-sabotage if you haven’t addressed your inner world.

That’s why Warriors go deeper.

In this section, you will explore:

Emotional healing and somatic release
The four internal forces that unlock lasting change: Willingness, Belief, Discipline, Commitment
The natural laws that govern transformation
The real rewards of walking this path—peace, confidence, purpose, joy

Carrying the water means facing what’s within. Lifting the emotional and spiritual burdens that led to physical weight. And learning how to carry yourself with strength, grace, and power—through all seasons of life.

This is not the easy part. But it is the essential part.

Because this is the part that will change you forever.

Let’s begin.

Chapter 11 - Heal The Hurt To Lose The Weight

Chapter 11: Heal the Hurt to Lose the Weight

The weight isn’t just on your body. It’s in your story.

“If you don’t deal with your trauma, your trauma will deal with you.”

— Unknown

There is a truth most diet programs never talk about.

A truth hidden behind food charts, step trackers, and calorie apps.

A truth too uncomfortable for the weight loss industry to acknowledge.

Excess weight often begins as protection.

It’s armor.

It’s insulation.

It’s an attempt to feel safe in a world that hurt you.

For some, it’s the result of childhood wounds.

For others, it’s grief, betrayal, abuse, or abandonment.

For many, it’s years of shame, rejection, and self-loathing wrapped in silence.

Food becomes the bandage.

Weight becomes the shield.

And over time, your body carries not just fat—but fear, sadness, and unresolved pain.

This is the emotional weight.

And no amount of exercise will release it until you begin to face it.

Why Emotional Weight Shows Up as Physical Weight

When we don’t know how to process pain, we look for something to ease it.

Food is socially accepted.

It’s accessible, legal, and comforting.

It gives us a temporary high—followed by a crash.

It numbs what we don’t want to feel.

It becomes a drug with a smile.

And because our culture avoids emotional truth, many people go their entire lives treating symptoms instead of addressing the root.

They restrict their diets.

They punish themselves with workouts.

They obsess over numbers.

But deep down, they never stop feeling empty.

Until they decide to heal.

That’s when the real weight loss begins.

The Body Remembers

You may have heard the phrase: “The body keeps the score.”

It’s true.

Your body remembers the abuse you endured.

The rejection you internalized.

The abandonment you never talked about.

The grief you never processed.

The shame you never shed.

When you ignore or suppress these emotions, they don’t disappear.

They manifest as inflammation, fatigue, depression—and yes, excess weight.

The Warrior’s path is not just physical.

It’s emotional.

It’s somatic.

It’s spiritual.

You don’t just lose weight by changing your habits.

You lose weight by releasing what you’ve been carrying inside.

Feeling to Heal

In the MPWLC movement, we believe that you cannot heal what you are unwilling to feel.

That’s why somatic healing—the practice of becoming present with emotions in your body—is so important.

This is where you begin to:

Notice how stress lands in your chest
Feel how anxiety churns in your stomach
Recognize that binge eating comes after emotional suppression
Understand that cravings are often just disguised cries for comfort, safety, or expression

And most importantly:

You learn to sit with it.

To breathe through it.

To stay with it—rather than eat over it.

Because every time you feel something instead of avoiding it, you get lighter.

Emotional Triggers and Food Patterns

Most people don’t eat because they’re hungry.

They eat because they’re:

Lonely
Stressed
Tired
Overwhelmed
Anxious
Bored
Numb

These triggers activate old programming:

“I had a hard day—I deserve a treat.”
“I feel anxious—food will calm me down.”
“I’m lonely—this meal will keep me company.”
“I feel out of control—at least I can control what I eat.”

The Warrior doesn’t shame themselves for these responses.

The Warrior becomes aware of them.

And over time, rewrites them.

Awareness Is the First Act of Healing

The next time you feel a strong craving, pause and ask:

“What am I really feeling right now?”
“What is my body asking for—comfort or connection?”
“Is this hunger… or is this emotion?”
“What would I do if I couldn’t eat in this moment?”

You’ll be surprised how often food isn’t the answer.

And when you start answering with breath, with stillness, with presence instead of eating—you’ll find that the weight begins to move in more ways than one.

My Healing Journey

There were days when I walked not just to burn calories, but to feel safe.

To regulate my emotions.

To reconnect with myself.

There were meals I didn’t eat—not because I wasn’t hungry—but because I finally realized I was just sad. Or angry. Or tired.

My transformation didn’t just happen on the scale.

It happened when I stopped avoiding pain—and started working with it.

When I began carrying the emotional water—my own truth, responsibility, and inner world—I finally had the strength to carry less on my body.

This is why healing matters.

You Are Not Broken

Let this be clear:

You are not damaged. You are not defective.

You are not lazy or weak.

You are someone who has been hurt—and may have never been taught how to process that pain in a healthy way.

That changes now.

You don’t need to fix yourself.

You need to face yourself—with compassion, honesty, and courage.

Because when you do, your body will follow.

Your energy will shift.

Your cravings will ease.

Your peace will return.

And the weight will begin to let go of you—because you are finally letting go of it.

Reflection

What emotional pain have you carried that may be connected to your eating patterns or weight?
When are you most likely to overeat or make self-sabotaging choices? What feelings usually precede those moments?
How can you begin practicing presence, awareness, or stillness during emotional waves—rather than reaching for food?

Warrior Affirmation

“I am not broken. I am healing. I am learning to feel so that I can be free.”

Action Step

Begin an Emotional Check-In Practice: three times a day, pause and ask: “What am I feeling right now?” Write it down if possible.
The next time a craving hits, wait five minutes, breathe, and ask, “What am I really hungry for?”
Schedule a walk, journaling session, or moment of stillness specifically when you feel triggered, and observe what arises
Consider working with a trained somatic or emotional healing guide if deeper pain surfaces—healing is brave work, and you don’t have to do it alone

The Warrior carries more than weight.

The Warrior carries emotional pain, old patterns, and personal history.

But over time, the Warrior learns to release it.

And with every ounce of pain released, the body lightens.

That’s how you heal.

That’s how you change.

That’s how you become free.

Chapter 12 - The Four Forces Of A Warrior’s Mind

Chapter 12: The Four Forces of a Warrior’s Mind

Your transformation begins inside.

“Until you are willing, until you believe, until you have discipline, until you commit—you will not succeed.”

— The Way of Excellence

Every great transformation begins in the mind.

You can have the perfect meal plan.

You can walk 10,000 steps.

You can buy new workout clothes and prep your fridge.

But if your mindset isn’t aligned with your goals, none of it will last.

That’s why the Warrior focuses on building not just healthy habits, but a fortress of belief and mental strength.

There are four mental forces that govern lasting change—drawn from The Way of Excellence. These forces act like pillars inside the Warrior’s mind. Without them, progress collapses. With them, transformation becomes inevitable.

These four forces are:

Willingness
Belief
Discipline
Commitment

Let’s take them one by one.

1. Willingness: You Must Be Willing to Begin

Nothing starts without willingness.

You must be willing to:

Be uncomfortable
Be consistent
Be honest with yourself
Make different choices
Let go of what no longer serves you
Become someone new

Willingness is about readiness.

Not perfection. Not even confidence.

Just the decision to try.

The Warrior says, “I may not know everything. I may not feel ready. But I’m willing to begin.”

That’s where transformation starts.

2. Belief: You Must Believe It’s Possible for You

Belief is the engine that moves you forward when results are slow.

Without belief, every setback becomes evidence that you’re doomed to fail.

But with belief, every setback becomes a step. A lesson. A necessary part of the journey.

You must believe:

That change is possible
That you are capable
That it’s not too late
That your body can heal
That your story is not over

Belief doesn’t mean never doubting.

It means refusing to let doubt make your decisions.

The Warrior believes—not because they always feel certain, but because they’ve chosen to believe anyway.

3. Discipline: You Must Take Consistent Action

Discipline is covered in detail in Chapter 10, but it deserves a place here because it connects belief to behavior.

Discipline is the bridge between your intention and your outcome.

You can be willing.

You can believe.

But if you don’t act—repeatedly—you won’t change.

Discipline isn’t about being perfect.

It’s about being loyal to the path, even when it’s hard, even when it’s boring, even when no one sees.

Every time you show up, you strengthen this mental force.

And every act of discipline reinforces your identity as a Warrior.

4. Commitment: You Must Stay the Course

Willingness gets you started.

Belief fuels the engine.

Discipline moves the needle.

Commitment locks you in.

Commitment means:

No more quitting
No more starting over
No more abandoning yourself at the first sign of difficulty
No more waiting for the perfect moment

Commitment is the decision to stay, even when motivation fades.

Commitment means:

“This time, I’m not just trying. I’m changing.”

The Warrior doesn’t dabble.

The Warrior decides.

When All Four Forces Align

When these four forces are present and active, momentum is unstoppable.

Willingness brings you to the edge of transformation.
Belief gives you the courage to jump.
Discipline gives you wings.
Commitment ensures you land somewhere better than where you started.

This is the mental framework behind every lasting success story.

If even one is missing, the process will stall.

But when all four are strong?

That’s when the Warrior rises.

What Happens When One Is Weak?

If you’re not making progress, ask:

Am I truly willing, or am I still negotiating with comfort?
Do I actually believe I can change—or am I quietly expecting to fail again?
Am I taking daily action, or only acting when I feel like it?
Have I fully committed, or am I treating this like another experiment?

Every Warrior must self-audit.

No shame. No guilt.

Just clarity—and course correction.

Because the path is still here.

And your strength is still waiting to be claimed.

My Own Experience with the Four Forces

When I finally began to lose weight and keep it off, it wasn’t because I found the right diet.

It was because I made a mental shift:

I became willing to live differently.
I began to believe that I was capable.
I acted with discipline, even when results were slow.
I made an unbreakable commitment to myself—not to reach a goal, but to become a new kind of person.

That was the moment I stopped trying.

And started becoming.

Reflection

Which of these four forces (Willingness, Belief, Discipline, Commitment) feels strongest in you right now?
Which feels weakest? Why?
What can you do today to strengthen the mental force you need most?

Warrior Affirmation

“I am willing. I believe. I act with discipline. I am committed. Nothing will stop me from becoming who I’m meant to be.”

Action Step

Choose one force to focus on this week and practice it daily:

For Willingness: Write down what you’re afraid of and declare that you’re ready anyway
For Belief: Read your past wins or write affirmations that reinforce what’s possible
For Discipline: Choose one health behavior to repeat for 7 days, no matter what
For Commitment: Write a contract to yourself: “I don’t quit on me—ever again”

Post your chosen force somewhere you can see it. Let it guide you.

These are not just traits.

They are tools.

They are the mental armor of the Weight Loss Warrior.

Master them, and you won’t just lose the weight.

You’ll become someone who never needs to find it again.

Chapter 13 - The Warrior’s Laws of Excellence

Chapter 13: The Warrior’s Laws of Excellence

Change isn’t optional. Alignment is.

“When you understand the laws that govern life, you no longer fight them. You align with them—and everything changes.”

— The Way of Excellence

You’ve now seen that weight loss is far more than food or movement.

It’s mental.

It’s emotional.

It’s spiritual.

But above all—it’s principled.

There are natural laws that govern transformation. They’re not invented by man. They’re not created by science. They simply are. And once you align your life with them, change no longer feels forced—it becomes inevitable.

In The Way of Excellence, these truths are described as Laws—not rules, suggestions, or motivational slogans, but foundational truths that apply to everyone, at all times.

In this chapter, we’ll explore the most powerful Laws that apply to weight loss, healing, and long-term transformation—and how Warriors use them not just to reach their goals, but to become excellent in the process.

The Law of Persistence

“You must keep going—especially when results are slow.”

This law is simple: If you quit, nothing changes.

Most people don’t fail because they can’t succeed.

They fail because they stop too soon.

You may feel frustrated. You may feel tired. You may hit plateaus.

But if you persist—you win.

Warriors don’t look for easy wins.

They train for long battles.

They know that mastery lies beyond the moment when most people give up.

The Law of Balance

“You cannot go all-in on one area of life while ignoring the others.”

Losing weight is not just about eating well and moving more.

It’s also about sleeping, thinking clearly, managing stress, building relationships, and living with purpose.

When you neglect balance, you fall into extremes:

Overtraining but under-resting
Eating clean but staying emotionally toxic
Losing weight but gaining anxiety
Gaining physical health while losing peace of mind

The Warrior seeks integration, not obsession.

Balance doesn’t mean doing everything perfectly.

It means keeping what matters in view—and adjusting when something gets out of alignment.

The Law of Responsibility

“No one is coming to save you. You must own your results.”

Blaming others will never make you stronger.

Making excuses will never make you leaner.

Waiting for rescue will never set you free.

Taking full responsibility for your life doesn’t mean you caused every problem.

It means you’re the only one who can change it.

This law is not about guilt. It’s about power.

The moment you stop outsourcing your life to others, you reclaim the pen—and begin rewriting your story.

The Warrior doesn’t wait.

The Warrior doesn’t blame.

The Warrior acts.

The Law of Integrity

“Your outer life must match your inner truth.”

Integrity is not just about honesty with others—it’s about honesty with yourself.

Are you doing what you said you would do?
Are your habits aligned with the identity you’re building?
Are you living in accordance with your values?

Every time you say, “I’ll walk tomorrow,” and don’t—you weaken your self-trust.

Every time you say, “I’m serious this time,” and quit—you widen the gap between who you are and who you say you want to be.

Warriors close that gap.

They do what they say.

They build internal congruence.

Because when your actions and identity align, you no longer need discipline to stay on the path.

The path becomes who you are.

The Law of Alternatives

“Every choice leads somewhere. You can choose your actions—but not your outcomes.”

There are no neutral choices.

Everything you do—every meal, every walk, every moment of awareness or avoidance—either takes you closer to your goals or further away.

Skip your walk today? That’s a vote for inertia.
Take the walk anyway? That’s a vote for momentum.
Eat mindlessly? That’s a vote for disconnection.
Eat with awareness? That’s a vote for alignment.

This law is not about shame. It’s about truth.

The Warrior uses this truth to choose powerfully.

Every moment, you are casting a vote for the life you’re building.

Choose wisely.

The Law of Change

“You are always becoming—whether you mean to or not.”

You don’t get to stay the same.

You’re either growing stronger or growing stagnant.

Every time you resist discomfort, you stay where you are.

Every time you lean into discomfort, you grow.

Growth isn’t linear. It’s messy.

But the Warrior embraces the process.

Because the Warrior knows:

Every challenge is an opportunity
Every setback is a setup for strength
Every discomfort is a doorway to becoming more

The Warrior doesn’t avoid growth.

They walk toward it—on purpose.

These Laws Cannot Be Broken—Only Violated

Gravity doesn’t care whether you believe in it.

These laws don’t either.

You don’t break these laws.

You break yourself against them—when you live out of alignment.

But when you honor them, you find:

Peace where there used to be chaos
Progress where there used to be cycles
Power where there used to be fear

This is why The Way works.

Because it doesn’t fight reality.

It aligns with it.

And in that alignment, Warriors thrive.

Reflection

Which of these Laws do you currently live by?
Which Law are you resisting—and how is that affecting your progress?
What would your journey look like if you built your life around these principles?

Warrior Affirmation

“I live by truth. I align with the laws of excellence. I honor the process, and the process honors me.”

Action Step

Choose one Law and write it on a note card or digital screen—review it daily
Take one action today to come into alignment with that Law
When making a decision, pause and ask: “Does this choice honor the Laws—or violate them?”

You are not just losing weight.

You are stepping into alignment—with truth, with excellence, with who you were always meant to be.

These Laws are not limitations.

They are invitations—to live wisely, powerfully, and freely.

And that is how Warriors live.

Chapter 14 - The Warrior’s Rewards

Chapter 14: The Warrior’s Rewards

This isn’t just about weight. It’s about freedom.

“The real victory is not what you lose. It’s what you gain in the process.”

When most people start a weight loss journey, they think they’re after a number.

“I want to weigh 180.”
“I just need to lose 40 pounds.”
“I’ll finally be happy when I reach my goal weight.”

But Warriors know something most people don’t:

The number is never the prize.

What you gain on this path is so much more than what you lose.

This isn’t about a body. It’s about a life.

It’s about becoming someone you can be proud of—inside and out.

Let’s look at the real rewards of this journey.

1. Confidence That Comes from Consistency

This isn’t surface-level confidence that depends on compliments or clothing sizes.

This is deep, unshakable self-trust that comes from knowing:

You did what you said you would do.
You followed through when it got hard.
You kept your word to yourself—again and again.

That kind of consistency builds the kind of confidence that lasts a lifetime.

2. Energy That Fuels a Bigger Life

Warriors don’t want to just be skinny. They want to live fully.

When you eat real food, move your body, and stop numbing your emotions, you unlock:

Clearer thinking
Deeper sleep
Less inflammation
More stamina
Natural vitality

You stop dragging yourself through the day—and start attacking it with purpose.

3. Emotional Strength and Resilience

As you learn to carry the water, you stop running from your emotions.

You start facing pain. You start healing. You start growing.

You realize:

You can feel hard things and still make good choices.
You can be sad and still go for your walk.
You can feel shame and still show up for yourself.

This inner resilience is priceless.

4. Integrity Between Who You Are and Who You Say You Are

The Warrior’s journey is one of alignment.

You stop living in contradiction. You stop hiding. You stop saying one thing and doing another.

Instead, you become:

Someone who lives their values
Someone whose identity and actions match
Someone others respect—but more importantly, someone you respect

5. Freedom from the Mental Weight

The physical weight is heavy—but the mental weight is often worse.

The guilt after every binge
The fear of being seen
The endless obsession over calories and carbs
The self-hate, the comparisons, the shame

When you walk The Way, this burden begins to lift.

You’re no longer controlled by food.

You’re no longer at war with your body.

You’re no longer trapped in the cycle of sabotage and despair.

You are free.

6. Purpose That Fuels the Rest of Your Life

Most Warriors don’t stop with weight loss.

Why?

Because along the way, they become someone who knows how to change.

They realize:

“If I can do this, what else can I do?”
“If I can overcome this, who else can I help?”
“If I can rebuild my body and my habits, maybe I can rebuild my whole life.”

That’s how many Warriors become leaders.

They inspire their kids. They mentor others. They change communities.

They bring purpose, passion, and power to the world around them.

This Is Who You Were Meant to Be

The path of the Weight Loss Warrior is not about looking a certain way.

It’s about becoming someone new.

Not fake. Not fabricated.

But finally aligned with who you’ve always been beneath the layers of weight, pain, shame, and fear.

You’re not just losing pounds.

You’re shedding limitations.

You’re not just building habits.

You’re building a legacy.

You’re not just chasing health.

You’re answering your higher calling.

Reflection

What are the non-scale rewards you’ve already experienced on your journey?
How do you want to feel in your body, mind, and spirit—not just how you want to look?
What would it mean for your life if you became someone who finished what you started?

Warrior Affirmation

“I am more than a number. I am building a life of integrity, energy, and purpose. My journey is my reward.”

Action Step

Make a list of the real reasons you’re doing this—beyond weight or appearance.
Post that list where you can see it every day.
Let it guide you. Let it remind you. Let it carry you forward when motivation fades.

The battle is not just for your body. It’s for your soul. And you, Warrior, are winning.

PART IV - THE WARRIOR'S CODE

Part IV: The Warrior’s Code

Live it. Embody it. Be it.

“Discipline is choosing between what you want now and what you want most.”

— Abraham Lincoln (attributed)

The battle doesn’t end when you reach your goal weight.

That’s where the real transformation begins.

In this final part of the journey, we shift from doing to being.

From forcing discipline to embodying identity.

From chasing change to living excellence.

From trying to stay on track to becoming the track itself.

You’ve come far. You’ve done the work.

Now it’s time to anchor your transformation in a code—a set of core principles that guide you for life.

This is The Warrior’s Code.

It’s not a set of rules.

It’s a way of life.

It’s what separates temporary change from permanent transformation.

It is your compass in chaos.

Your structure in uncertainty.

Your torch when motivation fades and darkness creeps in.

In this part, you’ll discover how to:

Live by standards, not moods
Turn identity into action
Let discipline become devotion
Lead yourself powerfully, regardless of circumstances

This is how Warriors stay free.

This is how they lead others.

This is how they never go back.

Let’s finish strong.

Let’s seal the change.

Let’s live The Warrior’s Code.

Chapter 15 - Identity First, Results Second

Chapter 15: Identity First, Results Second

You don’t achieve your identity. You build it—one vote at a time.

“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.”

— Carl Jung

So many people think lasting weight loss is about motivation.

Or information.

Or willpower.

But Warriors know better.

The key to permanent transformation is identity.

If you don’t shift who you believe you are, you will always return to your old behaviors—even after reaching your goals.

Why Identity Matters

Here’s the truth:

If you see yourself as someone who “always struggles with weight,” you will.
If you see yourself as a “chronic emotional eater,” you’ll keep reinforcing that pattern.
If you call yourself “lazy,” you’ll act accordingly—especially on hard days.

But if you begin to believe…

“I am a Warrior.”
“I am someone who walks every day.”
“I am someone who eats to fuel, not to escape.”
“I take care of myself—even when it’s hard.”

…then every action becomes a way to reinforce your identity.

Your Actions Are Votes

Every time you:

Get up and go for your walk
Choose whole food over processed junk
Prepare your meals with intention
Show up on days you don’t feel like it

You cast a vote for the kind of person you are becoming.

You don’t need to be perfect.

You just need to keep voting.

Because over time, the votes stack up.

And when your votes align with your values, your identity begins to shift.

You stop trying to change.

You start living as someone who has already changed.

Be, Then Do

Most people follow this model:

Have → Do → Be

“Once I have more time, I’ll eat better.”
“Once I lose weight, I’ll feel confident.”
“Once I’m motivated, I’ll start walking.”

But Warriors flip the model:

Be → Do → Have

“I am a person who moves daily—so I walk.”
“I am someone who honors my body—so I choose nourishing foods.”
“I am a Warrior—so I show up, no matter what.”

The doing flows from the being.

And the having flows from the doing.

Don’t Wait to Feel Like That Person—Start Acting Like Them

You don’t wait until you feel confident to act confident.

You don’t wait until you feel like an athlete to train.

You become those things by acting your way into the identity.

Start now.

Walk like someone who respects their body.
Eat like someone who values their future.
Speak to yourself like someone who loves who they’re becoming.

From External Motivation to Internal Embodiment

In the beginning, you may need outside support: coaches, community, reminders, encouragement.

But over time, you build something stronger: internal integrity.

You move from:

Needing accountability → to living by alignment
Relying on hype → to acting from values
Avoiding pain → to embracing challenge

The Warrior’s actions no longer depend on moods or momentum.

They’re rooted in who you are.

Reflection

What identity have you unconsciously been reinforcing through your behavior?
Who do you want to become—and what daily actions cast votes for that person?
How would your habits change if you truly believed, “I am a Weight Loss Warrior”?

Warrior Affirmation

“I am no longer waiting to become someone. I already am. I act from identity, not emotion. I live the life of a Warrior.”

Action Step

Write the phrase: “I am a person who ______.”Fill in the blank with the Warrior identity you want to reinforce (e.g., “walks daily,” “eats with intention,” “does hard things”).
Post it somewhere visible.
Cast at least one vote today for that identity—no matter how small.

You are not becoming someone else. You are finally becoming you. The Warrior was always there. Now you’re letting them lead.

Chapter 16 - Discipline Is Devotion

Chapter 16: Discipline Is Devotion

What you repeat is what you revere.

“You become what you give your time and attention to.”

— Epictetus

In today’s world, discipline gets a bad reputation.

It sounds rigid. Harsh. Unforgiving.

People confuse it with self-punishment. Or think it’s only for athletes, monks, or soldiers.

But Warriors know the truth:

Discipline is not punishment. It’s devotion.

It’s not about control. It’s about care.

It’s how you say:

“I matter.”

“My goals matter.”

“My future matters.”

When you walk daily, choose real food, and honor your commitments, you’re not being hard on yourself.

You’re being good to yourself—in a way that lasts.

Devotion Means Loving Yourself Enough to Follow Through

Think of someone you love deeply.

When you show up for them…

When you make time for them…

When you stay present, even when it’s hard…

That’s devotion.

Now imagine turning that same energy inward.

What if you loved yourself enough to:

Keep showing up, even after setbacks
Say no to what harms you
Say yes to what heals you
Keep going, not out of force, but out of care

That’s what Warrior-level discipline looks like.

The Discipline of Daily Practice

Discipline isn’t about grand gestures.

It’s built in the trenches of your day-to-day life:

Drinking water instead of soda
Cooking instead of grabbing fast food
Going for a walk instead of collapsing on the couch
Journaling instead of numbing with screens

It’s not always fun. But it is always worth it.

Every choice is a form of spiritual training.

Every action is a brick in the foundation of the Warrior you are becoming.

Freedom Comes Through Structure

Most people think freedom means doing whatever you want.

But that’s not freedom.

That’s indulgence.

And indulgence, over time, leads to slavery—to cravings, chaos, and regret.

Warriors know that true freedom comes from structure.

When you have boundaries, routines, and values that guide your choices:

You don’t waste time on indecision
You don’t live by impulse
You protect your energy
You build peace

Discipline isn’t the enemy of joy.

It’s the container that makes joy sustainable.

You Won’t Always Feel Like It—Do It Anyway

There will be days you want to quit.

Days when your mind says:

“This is too much.”
“You’ve earned a break.”
“One slip won’t matter.”
“What’s the point anyway?”

This is where the Warrior trains.

Because discipline means doing the work—even when you don’t feel like it.

Not because you’re chasing perfection.

But because you’ve chosen excellence.

You’ve chosen to live by principles, not by moods.

Discipline Is a Form of Love

Every disciplined act is an act of love:

Choosing nourishing food is loving your body.
Walking daily is loving your health.
Honoring your word is loving your future self.
Keeping promises to yourself is building self-respect.

This kind of love is not soft or sentimental.

It’s fierce. Focused. Unshakable.

And it’s what creates real change.

Reflection

What does discipline mean to you—and how has that meaning helped or hindered your growth?
What would shift if you started treating discipline as an act of devotion?
What’s one area of your life that needs more structure—and how can you give it that today?

Warrior Affirmation

“My discipline is not a burden—it’s a blessing. I honor my path by walking it daily. I show love through action.”

Action Step

Choose one routine or habit to recommit to—not from guilt, but from devotion.
Set a time each day to practice it, no matter how small the action.
Say aloud before doing it: “This is how I honor myself.”

Discipline is not what you do to punish who you were. It’s what you do to honor who you’re becoming. And that, Warrior, is sacred.

Chapter 17 - Lead Yourself First

Chapter 17: Lead Yourself First

You are the leader you’ve been waiting for.

“If you don’t program yourself, life will program you.”

— Les Brown

Most people spend their lives waiting:

Waiting for the right time
Waiting for motivation
Waiting for someone to tell them what to do
Waiting for permission to change

But Warriors don’t wait.

They lead.

Not by barking orders. Not by pretending to have it all together.

They lead by example.

They lead by showing up.

They lead by becoming the person they needed when they were struggling.

And that begins with the most important leadership decision you’ll ever make:

Choosing to lead yourself.

Why Self-Leadership Matters

No coach, no partner, no program—no matter how good—can live your life for you.

Yes, support matters.

Yes, community is powerful.

But at the end of the day, your results rest on one person: you.

You’re the one who decides whether to eat with intention or not.
You’re the one who gets up and walks—or stays in bed.
You’re the one who hits the reset button after a setback—or stays stuck.

The moment you stop outsourcing your power is the moment you reclaim your life.

Self-Leadership Is Built Through Daily Decisions

Leading yourself doesn’t require perfection. It requires ownership.

It shows up in the small, quiet choices:

Walking even when no one is watching
Planning your meals instead of winging it
Journaling your thoughts instead of suppressing them
Choosing honesty over excuses

These decisions seem small.

But strung together, they create momentum.

And momentum is what separates those who dabble from those who transform.

You Set the Tone

If you want to influence others—your kids, your family, your clients, your community—start by leading yourself.

Because people don’t follow what you say.

They follow what you model.

If you want your family to eat healthier, show them how it’s done.
If you want others to move more, move daily yourself.
If you want to inspire change, become a living example of it.

Your life becomes your message.

Stop Waiting. Start Leading.

Leadership isn’t a title. It’s a choice.

It’s not something you get. It’s something you embody.

So stop waiting:

For the perfect time
For a magical plan
For everything to feel easier

That moment may never come.

But this moment is here—and it’s enough.

You don’t have to be ready.

You just have to begin.

Reflection

In what ways have you been waiting for someone else to lead your life?
What does self-leadership look like for you on a daily basis?
How would your life change if you took full ownership starting today?

Warrior Affirmation

“I am the leader of my life. I don’t wait. I don’t blame. I rise and lead—by example, with courage, and through action.”

Action Step

Identify one area where you’ve been waiting for external leadership (e.g., diet, exercise, emotional healing).
Replace that waiting with a single action today—something small but powerful.
Say aloud: “I lead myself now.”

The Warrior doesn’t follow the crowd. The Warrior doesn’t wait to be told. The Warrior leads—with consistency, with courage, and with clarity.

And now, so do you.

Chapter 18 - Finish What You Start

Chapter 18: Finish What You Start

The Warrior’s path is paved with completion, not just intention.

“Starting strong is good. Finishing strong is epic.”

— Robin Sharma

Anyone can start a diet.

Anyone can make a vision board.

Anyone can feel fired up after a motivational video.

But Warriors aren’t interested in starting.

They are obsessed with finishing.

Because they know that:

It’s not the first walk that transforms you. It’s the thousandth.
It’s not one good meal that rewires your body. It’s consistent nourishment.
It’s not a burst of motivation that changes your life. It’s the choice to follow through when the motivation fades.

Finishing is what separates those who dream from those who transform.

Why People Struggle to Finish

There are many reasons people start but don’t finish:

They hit a plateau and feel discouraged
They face discomfort and revert to old habits
They lose sight of their “why”
They chase perfection and give up when they fall short
They get distracted and drift

But Warriors aren’t immune to these things—they’re just trained to push through them.

They know how to reset without quitting.

They’ve built the internal systems to get back up—over and over.

The Myth of Motivation

One of the biggest lies in the weight loss world is this:

“If I were more motivated, I’d finish.”

No.

Motivation is fleeting.

It comes and goes with your mood, your hormones, your sleep, your stress.

Finishing doesn’t come from motivation.

It comes from commitment.

And commitment is a decision—not a feeling.

You decide to finish.

You decide that no matter how long it takes, how hard it feels, or how imperfectly you do it—you will see it through.

Progress Over Perfection

Here’s a Warrior’s truth:

You will fall.

You will stumble.

You will have days where you eat off-plan, miss your walk, or mentally check out.

The goal is not flawlessness.

The goal is resilience.

When you fall, fall forward.

Get up. Regroup. Learn. Keep going.

You don’t lose because you slipped.

You lose because you stayed down.

Warriors rise.

Completion Builds Confidence

Every time you finish what you start:

A day
A walk
A challenge
A commitment

You wire confidence into your nervous system.

You teach yourself:

“I can trust me.”

“I am reliable.”

“I don’t flake. I finish.”

And that’s the kind of self-belief that becomes unshakable.

What Are You Willing to See Through?

Most people live in cycles of false starts and unfinished business.

But Warriors build a life of closure. Of completion. Of follow-through.

Ask yourself:

What would it feel like to finish your transformation?
Not just physically—but mentally, emotionally, spiritually?
What if you could become the kind of person who always follows through?

That is the real reward.

That is the Way.

Reflection

What have you started in the past but never finished? Why?
What are you in the middle of right now that deserves to be completed?
What systems or rituals will help you stay on track—even when motivation disappears?

Warrior Affirmation

“I follow through. I finish strong. I do what I say I will do—especially when it’s hard. That is who I am.”

Action Step

Choose one thing in your journey that you’ve been putting off or struggling to complete.
Break it down into a small, winnable step—and do it today.
Say aloud before you begin: “I am someone who finishes.”

Anyone can start. Few finish. Warriors always finish.

And now, Warrior… so will you.

Chapter 19 - The Mission Is Never Over

Chapter 19: The Mission Is Never Over

When the weight is gone, the Way remains.

“Success is never owned. It is only rented—and the rent is due every day.”

— Rory Vaden

So you’ve hit your goal weight.

Your clothes fit.

People notice.

You feel good in your body.

But now what?

Most people think the finish line is the final destination.

Warriors know it’s just another starting point.

Because maintenance isn’t maintenance.

It’s mastery.

It’s not about holding on tightly to avoid gaining it back.

It’s about evolving into someone who lives this way naturally—because it’s who they’ve become.

There Is No Final Victory—Only Daily Devotion

This journey never really ends.

You’ll keep waking up to choices.
You’ll keep living in a world of distractions, triggers, and stress.
You’ll keep being human—flawed, emotional, inconsistent.

But now, you’re a Warrior.

And Warriors know that consistency isn’t a one-time achievement—it’s a lifestyle.

You don’t “graduate” from the Way.

You become the Way.

Life After the Goal Weight

Reaching your weight goal is like crossing a mountain peak.

Yes, you celebrate.

Yes, you breathe the air and admire the view.

But then what?

You climb the next mountain.

Building strength
Sharpening your mind
Deepening your emotional healing
Inspiring others
Leading by example

The weight was never the end.

It was the doorway.

Now you get to live on the other side.

Stay in the Game

Maintenance isn’t about being perfect forever.

It’s about staying in the game—no matter what:

If you overeat, you course-correct.
If you skip a week of walking, you get back out there.
If life hits hard, you don’t abandon yourself—you adapt.

Warriors don’t drift for long.

They notice, they reset, and they return to the Way.

They remember:

The mission is never over. But neither is my power to choose.

Teach. Share. Serve.

After transformation comes transmission.

You’ve done the hard work.

You’ve earned wisdom through action.

Now it’s time to share it:

Tell your story.
Encourage someone who’s struggling.
Be a guide to someone just beginning.

This isn’t just about weight.

It’s about waking people up to what’s possible.

When you share your journey, you help others believe in themselves.

You multiply the movement.

You become the ripple that starts a wave.

This Is a Way of Life

The Way of the Weight Loss Warrior isn’t something you did.

It’s someone you became.

You walk.

You eat with intention.

You breathe through emotion.

You show up for yourself—every day.

You’re not white-knuckling anymore.

You’re simply living the life of a Warrior.

And the longer you live it, the deeper it becomes.

This is your Way now.

Reflection

What does life look like now that you’ve released the weight?
What habits or principles from your journey will you carry with you forever?
Who could benefit from your story—and how will you share it?

Warrior Affirmation

“My journey didn’t end with weight loss. It expanded into a new life. I live the Way daily. And I help others find their Way too.”

Action Step

Write down three habits or mindset shifts that changed your life.
Commit to keeping them alive—not for results, but because they define who you are now.
Reach out to someone who could use encouragement—and be the Warrior they need.

There is no finish line. Only a higher path. And now, Warrior, you walk it. Not because you must. But because you can.

Chapter 20 - A Warrior’s Legacy

Chapter 20: A Warrior’s Legacy

Leave more than a number behind.

“Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you.”

— Shannon L. Alder

You didn’t just lose weight.

You changed your life.

You rewrote your story.

You became someone who walks with power, lives with purpose, and honors their body with every step.

And now, Warrior…

You have something even greater to offer:

A legacy.

Not a legacy of pounds lost.

But of strength gained.

Not just of before-and-after photos.

But of impact made.

This Was Never Just About You

From the start, your journey was personal.

It had to be. You were the one who had to rise.

But as your light grew brighter, others began to notice.

Some admired you silently.

Others asked, “How did you do it?”

Some may have doubted. Some may still.

But the truth remains:

You showed what’s possible.

You proved that change is real.

That discipline can be joyful.

That walking can be sacred.

That food can be healing.

That consistency can become identity.

Now, others are watching.

And some are ready.

They don’t need your perfection.

They need your story.

You Are Now a Living Example

You are the evidence that it can be done—without shortcuts, without gimmicks, without surgeries.

You are proof that:

Lifestyle beats quick fixes
Consistency outweighs intensity
Small steps build empires
The mind, body, and spirit are all connected

You didn’t just change.

You transformed—and stayed changed.

That’s rare.

That’s powerful.

That’s legacy.

Make the World Lighter

Your transformation didn’t just lighten your body.

It lightened your life.

It lightened your load.

And it can now lighten the lives of others.

That is the mission of the MPWLC movement:

To awaken thousands of others to the power they already have.

To show that permanent weight loss isn’t only possible—it’s available to anyone willing to walk the Way.

You are no longer just a participant.

You are a torchbearer.

And when you walk into a room, you bring the Way with you.

Let Your Life Be the Message

The Way of the Weight Loss Warrior isn’t a book you finish.

It’s a life you live.

It’s a movement you carry forward.

Every time you choose to:

Keep walking
Keep nourishing
Keep showing up
Keep loving yourself through struggle

…you build a legacy that ripples far beyond what you can see.

Your legacy is not a moment.

It is the sum total of your choices.

It is who you became—and who you helped others become.

That is the ultimate weight loss.

The release of everything that no longer serves you—so you can serve others more powerfully.

Reflection

What legacy do you want your weight loss journey to leave behind?
How can you use your transformation to uplift others?
What message do you want your life to communicate to those still struggling?

Warrior Affirmation

“I am a living example of what’s possible. I walk with purpose. I lift others as I rise. My legacy is in every step, every choice, and every life I touch.”

Action Step

Write a short letter to your future self—or to someone just beginning this journey.
In it, reflect on what this Way has taught you and how you plan to carry it forward.
Save it, share it, or read it aloud. Let it anchor your legacy.

This is not the end, Warrior. This is your beginning—again. You are the Way now. Walk it. Live it. Pass it on.

Epilogue - You Are The Way

Epilogue: You Are the Way

You’ve reached the end of this book—but not the end of the journey.

If you’ve walked with us this far, you already know:

This was never about information.

It was about transformation.

Not about quick fixes, but lasting identity.

Not about perfection, but daily presence.

Not about losing something, but becoming someone.

You are not the same person who began this journey.

You’ve shed more than weight—you’ve shed old beliefs.
You’ve gained more than discipline—you’ve gained self-respect.
You’ve learned that true strength isn’t in the struggle—it’s in the showing up.

You are no longer searching for the path.

You are walking it.

You are living it.

You are the Way.

And now, it’s your turn to pass it on.

To be the spark that lights someone else’s fire.

To be the calm in someone else’s chaos.

To be the proof that permanent change is real.

Not by preaching.

Not by persuading.

But simply by being who you’ve become.

You are a Weight Loss Warrior.

You don’t just carry the Way.

You are the Way.

Keep walking.

Keep leading.

Keep shining.

The world needs you.

And we are proud to walk beside you.

— Stanley Bronstein

Founder of the Million Pound Weight Loss Challenge